I said it once and I'll say it again. I hate nagging. Hate it! I don't want to be a nag. I don't want to nag anyone, ever, never. Don't make me nag you! It's annoying. But our homestudy still isn't done and it's driving me bananas. We had our last meeting with our social worker on December 22nd. As she left, she told us she would email us some questions in the next few days as questions always arise when she sits down to type up the homestudy. Well we got nothing. Nada. Zilch. So I patiently waited until after the holidays. I waited exactly 2 weeks. It took her 5 days to get back to me and after answering her reply, I have yet to hear back from her again. So tonight, I caved. I just nagged her again. A naggy waggy email sent off just minutes ago. I disguised it as trying to be helpful... i.e. just wanted to make sure you don't have any questions I can help answer. and by they way, how's it coming along?... but who am I kidding. I'm being a nag. I'm sure I'm annoying her but if she would just throw us a bone, maybe send us a draft, I would back the heck off. It's killin me!
I'm not nagging to nag because, again, we all hate a nag. BUT! But, we can't do anything until the homestudy is finalized. We need it to accompany our I-800 application and we need the I-800 approval (title TBD if I ever figure out what that part is) to send with our dossier. So she's holding up the whole freaking process. We are officially at a standstill. I need forward progress pronto. Maybe it's time to finally look at the dreaded checklist of special needs.
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